There is this thing that happens to me sometimes....I understand that Italians (although i am half Italian and black) don't like black people. Anyways I have a Italian American boyfriend and we been together since december. His parents talk about me to him a lot and I try to be mature about it and I believe I'm doing a great job, however. His sister read his text in the shower and she started to tell them everything. I don't know what to do because my interest in cars is high and same for him. We are trying to go to UTI, but his parents and grandparents are paying for everythang and my boyfriend is trying to have me move into his appartment. I love him but I feel that since there is a huge conflict my emotions for him becomes numb and the next time he texts me I feel like I love him.Any advice?

You shouldnt let what his family thinks get between how you feel about him if you love him it shouldnt matter

@realman2186: i brush wat dey say about me to da side. But da thang is his parents own da restraunt he works in and he currently lives wit em n im banned to come to da house but we r trying to c eachother

It sounds like his family is a little too up in yalls business. Have you explained to him how you feel? If not, you really should put it out there that its getting to you, and even affecting the relationship negatively. If you have told him how you feel already, he should step up and discuss it with his family - that definitely is a hard thing to do, but if he really loves you, he should be willing to do that. Maybe y'all can communicate, find some common ground and work it out. Being in love or just being in a relationship is about more than what the average person thinks. You want somebody solid whose going to fight for you, love you flaws and all, and not wimp out when things get a little shaky. Make your own decisions; moving in with him is a huuuge step, so think it over carefully and make sure that's something YOU want and are ready for.

Alynn is right all the way thumbs up. But communication is the most important role in a relatiomnship. You cant take him from his family and he cant take you from yours. As i assume your has no problems with him. So i again will asume its his. Again communication is important with family also.

Is moving in with him gonna help the situation with his parents? No, probably will make it worse, and if he works for them....geeezzzz....he needs to stand up for himself, u, and yalls relationship. When u love someone u accept their family as a part of them, and the family needs to accept u or their pushing their son further away into unhappiness.