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should i move on? (please read comment before answering) (by RizaDeadEye)

22 votes
Yes! move on, he doesnt know what he lost!
No, wait to see if he still wants you. if not move on
 RizaDeadEye (7)    (29 / F-MF / California)
21-Apr-13 7:03 am
My bf of 1 year dumped me. He said he wanted to focus on his grades so he could graduate and let's "just be friends" he broke it off before but because he was having family issues. but now there's a new guy in my life, and I really like him but Idk if I should wait for my ex... I mean this new guy is everything I wanted in a boyfriend but I would feel kinda guilty cuz I still have slight feelings for my ex..... THIS GIRL HAS MAJOR CONFUSION! PLEASE HELP!

 

 

 
 
 iWin 
21-Apr-13 7:10 am
hes playin you, enough said.

I voted move on..

 

 



Last edited by iWin; 21-Apr-13 7:11 am.
 
 
 RizaDeadEye (7)    (29 / F-MF / California)
21-Apr-13 7:12 am
@iWin: I don't think he was. At the beginning he was so devoted to the relationship but after something happened between my bestie and his, he got distant.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
21-Apr-13 7:13 am
I say these on and off relationships are a headaches. move forward with your life. you will find someone that's willing to be with you and not play games if you already haven't.

 

 

 
 
 iWin 
21-Apr-13 7:13 am
@RizaDeadEye: i understand..

but it seems like you would do anything to be with him.

& it dont seem like he would do anything to be with you.

 

 

 
 
 RizaDeadEye (7)    (29 / F-MF / California)
21-Apr-13 7:17 am
@brats52005: I think I have. I met him irl but he's on this site too! XD he's sweet, caring, likes me for me, and he told me he'd wait til I was ready for a relationship and he'd love me endlessly.

 

 

 
 
 Missassy01 
21-Apr-13 7:18 am
There is a saying that goes Good Things Fall Apart so Better Things Can Fall Together. Its understandable that you still have feeling for your ex considering you guys dated for a year.But he has move with his life, so you have to do the same for yourself, You have a new man who you say is everything you ever wanted. So dont make the mistake on missing out on love because your holding on to your past

 

 

 
 
 Hawkeye58 (35)    (65 / M-F / Arizona)
21-Apr-13 7:20 am
I say these on and off relationships are a headaches. move forward with your life. you will find someone that's willing to be with you and not play games if you already haven't.
Yeah, what she said ^^^

 

 

 
 
 Sd11 
21-Apr-13 7:22 am
@RizaDeadEye: In this case If u choose Option B u will miss A and u choose A then u will miss B more.
then u should go for option C.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
21-Apr-13 7:23 am
@brats52005: I think I have. I met him irl but he's on this site too! XD he's sweet, caring, likes me for me, and he told me he'd wait til I was ready for a relationship and he'd love me endlessly.
i hope you did and good luck take your time getting to know him. you will know when you are ready.

 

 

 
 
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