So I'm getting to know this woman who's been a friend over the phone better and I think I'm getting attached too fast cause we haven't even met yet though we've known each other for almost a year and live about an hour away from each other. Well the mistake is that we're not dating and she's a sexual creature, which I don't mind, but now I'm getting slightly jealous and told her. I think I made a mistake by telling her. It's probably gonna scare her off since we haven't even met yet. Any advice?

For me, Not a mistake because you're just true to your feelings. Almost a year of phone talking is sufficient enough to have that "attraction " toward her and perhaps she has an idea (through the flow of conversation). By being honest to your emotion you'll also know how she'll reacts which could determines her feelings toward you too.

@Rainbowbutterfly: well she's said she likes me recently but ik her and she probably won't stop her sexual stuff till we've met and she has determined how much she likes me. Am glad she doesn't do it very often tho. I just am jealous but we're not even past the friends stage yet and I told her that I was getting jealous. I think I should have waited till after we'd met to say something like that

James what u r feeling is normal and u shouldnt regret speaking ur feelings. Whether u have met or not u still can feel that part towards her that wants to share "sexual" experiences with her. Or so to speak. Being jealous cuz shows u truely care for this woman in my opinion.

i agree a lil jealous is gd

Ty guys. As it turns out I didn't need to be concerned she texted me back and said it isn't like that between her and her friend. Am glad its out in the open tho.

Cool james and its good to let people how you feel.

@MrSupaFreak101: i know someone who tends to be a lil jealous....lol....i find it flattering...and adorable(:

@AFunk: im guilty as charged baby but only cuz u my woman