I want to find someone who loves me for me. A partner to share all good and bad moments and not want to run in the opposite direction. Unconditional love. The kind you never want to end. Not one that expects things. I want to have a husband to be mine and only mine,who wants the same. I do not like jumping/rushing into things because i have children. And have never had random men around them, in fact i havent had any. Becuase all the men ive met want to rush into things. I think whats meant to be will just happen. They say they understand and respect the way i feel. But its never long before they lose interest. Does anyone else feel like giving up on love? Tired of looking? Frusterated because im goin around in circles.

It is frustrating. But hang in there. There are great guys out there. It will be so worth it when u find him.

I gave up on looking / searching for a man to be my companion & to whom I can share my laughter and tears, my success and failures & my love .

Giving up is not an option for me. Fustrating yes. But when you do find him all the pain and misery of the searching for the right person will be a shadow of what you will have. Things happen for a reason. Not to dishearten us but to make us stronger as a person and the lessons we learn smarter. So when you meet you special person they also went through there trials by error which makes them stronger and smarter.

Sissy I may change my mind if the wind blows positively on me....

anyways, very well said....

Gonna post my opinion and I hope my wording doesn't sound like I'm chastising bcuz I'm not, jus exhausted and my brain aint quite wking rite this morn lol. I think a person has to be able to be comfortable being alone first. U have to love urself, and be happy with who u are. No significant other should be needed to complete u, they shud compliment u. U shud feel complete on ur own bcuz each 1 of us is a unique human being. I used to think I HAD to have someone n my life to be happy and I actually wud end up miserable. But wen I decided to jus enjoy myself, do things jus for ME, I actually started to feel HAPPY :) Idk if this makes any sense or maybe I'm rambling now lol Anyway, thanks for the oppurtunity to post and maybe this will help someone

@Ram318: I think you give us girls hope that there r men out there that still "git it". I cldn't agree wthu more Ram, u must be whole and healthy and love urself before looking for a partner to love you.

Actually ram is right. I took the last seven years to be by myself and enjoy my life as a single parent. I dont have to have anyone. Im happy being me alone or with someone.

Thanks everyone. I agree with all the advise. Its a balance "thing". Like most everything in life. I have been and am Comfortable being alone. I dont feel a need. I want. Just wondering if anyone was feeling the same way. And im always up for good convo. I feel when ppl state thier opinions i may learn something about others or myself. Or maybe they see something i didnt. I like to hear others opinions. Even when i disagree. Thanks to all:)

For me, i used to think i HAD to have someone, and i still do to an extent, but its not because im scared to be alone or feel i need him to complete me, i feel that when u share ur life with someone u bloosum into a partnership, it not only helps u be a better person, but it helps them also. Noone wants to be alone, being comfortable with urself is one thing, but life is meant to be shared. I to am frustrated, tired of looking, and extremely tired of hearing how great some men/women are, if their so great why are they here. We all have flaws, everyone of us and we are all here for a reason, if he likes u he'll tell u, same with us women. so im jus browsing now a days, if it happens it happens, yes i get lonely, sometimes more then others, so for that reason i'll never give up cuz there is someone out there that is going to want to share his life with me & when he finds me, i'll be ready to share my life with him. Good luck to u