My best friend In the entire world just put me in a bad situation. He Is in jail and wants to go to prison. He works outside so I get to take him coffee, lunch, etc occasionally. Today he has this plan on escaping, and since I just moved and no one has my address, he wanted to come to my house for the night & turn himself in in the morning in hopes of being sent to prison for escaping. I lost everything for this man 2 years ago, I would do anything for him....but I have kids, if I get in caught I will be in jail...he says I won't get caught. As I sat in our meeting spot, I decided to drive away, he is going to hate me :( should I of helped me? Or did I do the right thing? I so wanted him here, I feel guilty.

You have to think of you and your kids dear. I know you feel.guilty. If he really cares for you. He will understand. I am always here for you Brite.

@Briteeyes: no u did the right thing..u have kids to think of and if he cared about u he wouldnt even want to do that to u and ur family..

@Briteeyes: he should have never even asked. You have too much to lose by helping and nothing to gain dear. He seems to only be thinking about him not you hon

You definitely did the right thing. You put you're children first, that's the most important thing.

He has a 3 year old he never sees so he don't realize the risk of losing. I had to walk away from our friendship for 9 months last year cause all he did was use me and take advantage. I could give stories but I won't, just trust me. He is one I was obsessed over...I wish he wouldn't do this to me. I'm the only one that has stood by him thru it all...the good, the bad and the ridiculous. His family isn't even there for him. I've drove across state just to pick him up on more then one occasion. This is just a lil much to ask tho... :(

What rob said, he has nothing to lose, You could lose it all if you were to do what he asked. In all reality he shouldnt have put you in that position.

@Briteeyes: i know what ur goin thru sister if u need to inbox me u can....but ur doin the right thing..

Brite txt me when you see this hun.

You did the right thing. But you shouldn't if told him that you would in the first place. If he it's going to be bad in your life you should cut all ties with him. He doesn't sound like a friend