Is anyone else getting tired of being called a racist if not interested in a man that lives in India or Africa? Not wanting to try to foster a relationship with someone that far away does NOT make me racist!! It has got me wondering how other ppl define racist tho, any one care to comment what it means to you and why?

I was raised racist. In my grandpas mind u did not mix with another race from yours. He saw any other than ours as less than human. People use the word alot when they dont get what they want. But true racism is about hate and fear not just a lack of interest.

Im not racist but i just prefer dating my own race

I do get darn tired of it. They act like spoiled children that dont get their way. Im now way and how a racist.

And what do their women think about them only wanting white girls, isnt that being racist against your own race?

@LaDawn1974: Hey darlin i have been through the same mess but most of mine are from nigeria! They aint ashamed to hit you up for some money too:)

Well i perfer staying with my own race just how i was raised... And fyi im not racist i hate everyone equally lol

@Scott76: I aint been hit up for any money yet....but as I am not racist at all, continually being called one by ppl that know nothing abt me is irritating. and no one is really answering the question...I have always believed to only date or not date any one soley based on race is racist. Yet I keep reading ppls post saying they aint racist but wont date certain races.

I have friends of other races, i just choose to date my own race

@LaDawn1974: i tried to answer. What exactly are u wanting answered