I know the title sounds sappy but I'm serious. I've been in this site for at lease a week now. And to be honest its fustraiting as Hell. Here's my dilemma I look through the lists of available woman I send them a message mind you not a rude one or perverted, not even the type of letter where I bombared the person with god awful compliments. I don't do that hears my number **** cause I know its stupid. Plus The letters are not too long so I don't bore the living **** out of them. I just try to convey a message that hey I like your profile I like your pic let's talk and see where this can go. Them boom dead silence no response. I tell you its an ego blow especially for someone who dosnt have much. And ladies this message is for you not the guys to come on here and throw insults at me like dude your lips is too ****ing Big thats why. No guys make your own thread I need to hear from my Target audience. Thank you for your time I hope you respond and help me out. Enjoy your day

And if it is because of my looks. Please just be kind and message it to me.

Well its not your looks. I dont know what it is for others and for me some of your threads are a little strange to me. Especially the serial killer thing. Just saying for me not everyone. So dont take me wrong. I was honest about it.

Right off the bat, I can tell you that your pic isn't helping you. It's dark, your face is blurry, and you're hiding your features behind a hoodie. Try taking a good quality pic during the day, with natural light, with you smiling, and no hoodie, and I bet you'll get more responses than you are now. Your pic is the first thing other users see about you, so you want to make as good of a first impression as possible.

Hope this helps.

I agree with bratts and andres

Yep. I cant even make out the pic.

I agree with Andres i dont see anything else wrong and i find ur Threads different and interesting...;p-

Plus dont limit yourself to girls who like costumes, i dont think there are many on here if any at all.

@brats52005: yeah about the cereal killer think your right a little too much criminal minds and reading books about the Zodiac and black dhalia. I tend to over evaluate things linking anything to cerisl killers. So again I'm sorry about that don't mean to freak people out

@Xxxdonna1: Really the hoody dosnt help and here I thought it gave me a bit of a thuggish look. Lol oh well ill change that. But I didn't know it was blurry. Thanks for the info this helps.