What am I doing so wrong on here :( ive been in 3 relations on here and they all failed... First one just decided to be a coward and not talk to me again or say its over. The 2nd only lasted what a few days cause apparently every soldier has to dump their "bf/gf" when they go over. Then the 3rd was just weird and I felt just awkward :/. Guess I have no irish luck even tho im almost full :( guess my standards are higher than I thought or I just look ugly and I dont have the perfect body :( sorry I have stress marks and baby fat from my 3 yr old :( but I dont regret it :/

Has anyone on here seen ur stretch marks to judge u by that? Why say that?

@MysticJade: you can inbox me

@MysticJade: didnt know you were part irish lol :) anyway can i just say you seem a great cool young lady and you'll find a guy for you :)

keep ya chin up. u seem like a smart and good looking girl. one day you'll make someone a very lucky man.

@MysticJade: Just curious not to sound liking im offending but how long do you take getting to know someone before jumping into a relatiinship? Maybe you should take longer than a couple days or couple weeks. Maybe a few months to establish a solid foundation with getting to know someone. You are a beautiful young lady, dont settle for less than you deserve.

@Briteeyes: when I say 3yr old one of their thoughts is gonna be she has stretch marks

That is the Irish luck. Irish luck is not good luck and I know how you feel and if someone doesn't like you cause of mother marks then they aren't worth it any ways just hang in there you'll find that special someone

Most all of us have stretch marks girl. Thats part of gaining 40-50 lbs to give birth....its a Blessing from above rather it alters our bodies or not. No its not attractive, but if a man cant accept it then hes not a man. I have marks from 19 yrs ago have 2 kids....im not a size 3 anymore. More importantly tho im who im suppose to be....stretch marks and all

the only thing im most secure about is my weight and severe acne problem. I dont regret my stretch marks.just bugs the crap out of me when they say they dont care what their s.o(significate other) but you tell them about a skin condition or something else then they change :/