so i watched a friend of mine get rejected today. he had a crush on this one girl and he finally got the balls to ask her out. well she told him no and he was obviously hurt and embarassed. i heard this woman talking to her friends cause i was within earshot. they were making fun of him cause he got shot down and got hurt by it. one specific phrase that kinda irked me was "why are men such babies"... oh yes.... ****** me off. and i told this woman right to her face what a C U Next Tuesday she is. how dare you berate someone for that! then you wanna generalize us? oh you guy would be proud of me.... i gave her the truth the only way i know how... pauls way :P.
people... ive had female friends that got rejected and got hurt by it...... so can you offer me an answer? why is it not ok for a man to take rejection like that? i mean... if it hurts, it hurts, right? so is he less of a man cause his feelings are human?

No he's not. He got hurt by it but that doesn't make him a baby. It just makes the chick look like a stuck up BI tickle cups honey. ;) Yeah.. <-- thought I'd try that out..but you get my point?

@DragonMaster7719: clearly that girl was capitalB ITCH. I am sorry, I always feel bad turning guys down, cause I know how hard it was on me at times to admit, yea I like that guy. lmao. He is not any less a man, nor is he at fault for having feelings, I bet if he hadn't reacted at all, they'd b*tched about that.

meg its hard to get the courage to even approach a person you like much less ask em out. i know being rejected sucks... i deal with it using humor... but inside youre feelin unattractive and beastlike.

@Suzieq205: oh you liked my C U Next Tuesday huh? lmao!

@DragonMaster7719: nah it jus makes him human n her well i think wat she is has already been covered

hes not a being a baby, hes simply being HUMAN. how dare those snot nosed biatchs laugh and make fun of him for that, they wouldnt be laughing if they had been rejected. heck i know how rejection can hurt, trust me,most of my adult like has been rejection after rejection from men all because of my fluffy figure, so why should a man act any differently when he is rejected. that pi$$es me off too and i dont even know the guy.. grrrrrrrrr

I actually did! I'm pretty jealous I didn't think of it first! ;) It took me a few minutes to get it though to be honest. Under this red haircolor, I'm really a blonde..xD

@kymberbutt1976: yeah i know how you feel in reverse lol. im 136lbs and 5'10" and once i asked a girl i liked out and her exact words were: "eww no! thatd be like f*cking a park bench with a splinter."...... ouch....

wow what a b!tch. I feel bad for your friend he didn't deserve that. Glad you told her off.