I see alot of women dont want to get wit some single dads cause they dont want the baby momma drama but what if you are a single dad wit no baby momma? My son mom died,hes only 4 mths so is it still the same or is that just an exuse?

@Kaotikdad: most of the time its just an excuse, but im sorry about ur sons mom thats so sad!

@SassyOak23: i thought so... Thanks sweety it is very sad

@Kaotikdad: yeah i know what its like growing up with out a mom, wont be easy!! But everything will work out in the end

Some women think ur not only looking for a partner but a mother and that could be a turn off or they know that they arent going to come first your son is that could also be another reason. But that aside i tip my hat off to you being a single parent espicaslly to a newborn is real tough i am there myself and doing just that.

I look at it a little different. say I got with a man who has kids. say I get attached to those kids. say the relationship doesn't work. is that man still going to let me be a part of those kid's life? it's hard to leave a child.

I fell deeply in love w/ my past ex kids! When my ex & I split it was hardest on his kids because they loved me so much! That was the hardest thing I ever had to do. Every woman will have thier own reasons