Ive been here awhile married but seperated most of the time. I treat him as if hes a king but nothing i do ever seems to be enough. He has a drug problem and i try my best to help but the addiction is stronger than my love any advice?

An Alanon group may help you deal with someone else's addiction.

@Gglynn: Id say he doesn't deserve you and you need to be treated better :) but hell what do i know....
but i say dump his ass and maybe it'll break him outta his drug habit because he'll understand that he wants you more then the drugs.... well anyway good luck

dont care about him, make him lonely and he wanna miss you a lot do like that surely love comes ah

U have done all u can, u need 2 think of yourself now. Its not doing u any good either staying in that environment u need 2 find someone who will love u and show u there feelings 2. I honestly think u should just move on, it ur best interests. If he really wants u he would try harder himself but he has only shown u he wants the drugs and not u. U come first in my book and u need 2 feel wanted as well and loved and everything else that comes into making someone so happy and loved. This is my advice whether u take it or not. Good luck with what u decide. I'm here if u ever want 2 talk 2.

take this as you will. Be completely honest about how you truly feel about him. How his dependency effects you, and be uncomprimising on the choice between the substance or you. And no matter the outcome, you asked for advise. So let no one say you didnt care.

Thank you all for the advice. I have tried the leaving he does come back and does better for awhile. My thing i understand why he is trying to numb pain from losses he witnessed. Thats why i come back i know he tries and loves me. I lost someone i was with 7ys and it nearly destroyed me

@Gglynn: awww I'm sorry about you loss if you need someone to talk to my inbox is always open