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First love left without a explanation (by devyn359)
(30 / M-F / Ontario)I have went through so much with my first love ever id give up anything for her and for some reason she just loses her love for me and leaves me without shedding a tear. And I'm trying to core but I don't know how, I keep thinking of her, plus she is already with a new guy so I'm engaged at the same time, plz help :(
But I wanna hurry the process up cause every time I think of her my heart feels like my heart is Swiss cheese :( I just feel really alone and not important to anyone
@devyn359: theres no immediate process in that. Step by step is the only one procedure to heal the wounds. U also need to help urself. Divert ur attention, make urself busy. Avoid the places or anything that could remind u of her. PRAY & BE POSITIVE!
Alright, I'm going to try and keep busy, thanks for the help. I just need a hug sometimes but nobody will give me one
@devyn359: ACCEPTANCE IS A MUST! Love is like a battlefield, u keep on fighting not knowing who'll gonna win in the end. But thats the fact, love is always like that. Learn to accept things heartily & stand up and rise again.. LOVE AGAIN & U WILL BE LOVED!
And how long does it take to heal the heart usually?
THATS EXACTLY THE REASON WHY GOD CREATED FAMILIES & FRIENDS... alright?
@devyn359: it just takes time . I know its pretty hard to get over a first love but just try cheer up and stay busy with stuff , ul be alright . Trust me ur not alone . :)
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