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Feeling really down (by Nzsweetie24)

 Nzsweetie24 (4)    (36 / F-M / New Zealand)
23-Jan-13 6:22 pm
So, found out recently that I have a thing called CBS (cognitive behavioral syndrome) and also Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Will any guy be interested in me when he finds that out? Please, be honest this really is upsetting to think it might impact my life in such a way.

 

 

 
 
 Re6elicious1 (4)   (45 / F-M / Tennessee)
23-Jan-13 6:40 pm
If he really wants you for you he will. Theres medication and other treatments that can help. I work with alot of people with ptsd they still live normal lives. No worries

 

 

 
 
 Nzsweetie24 (4)    (36 / F-M / New Zealand)
23-Jan-13 6:45 pm
Thanks :-) thats very encouraging. I appreciate your help.

 

 

 
 
 james85 
23-Jan-13 6:53 pm
@Nzsweetie24: totally agree, any good guy would accept you for you :D

 

 

 
 
 Dslaney92 (13)    (31 / M-F / Georgia)
23-Jan-13 6:54 pm
I don't see why not. If a guy is too shallow to see past that then he's not worth it

 

 

 
 
 Sammy2 
23-Jan-13 7:00 pm
Girl I have it from actually seeing my brother's brains&blood splattered everywhere:( They say that I have Severe Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, & Im tellin ya two things work for me-medication, and sunshine:)lol Also time... Im straight up about it w guys I feel a connection with& honestly have not experienced any negativite responses yet-even chatted w a few soldiers who have the same disability. Please remember to begin healing yourself first, then when you are ready you can move forward in a relationship with the right guy:) &if a guy doesnt want you solely because of that then he is not the kinda guy you need:)

 

 

 
 
 Nzsweetie24 (4)    (36 / F-M / New Zealand)
23-Jan-13 7:08 pm
Girl I have it from actually seeing my brother's brains&blood splattered everywhere:( They say that I have Severe Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, & Im tellin ya two things work for me-medication, and sunshine:)lol Also time... Im straight up about it w guys I feel a connection with& honestly have not experienced any negativite responses yet-even chatted w a few soldiers who have the same disability. Please remember to begin healing yourself first, then when you are ready you can move forward in a relationship with the right guy:) &if a guy doesnt want you solely because of that then he is not the kinda guy you need:)
So sorry to hear that honey! Yes, I can see what everyone is saying and you are all right :-) thanks to you all for taking the time to answer

 

 

 
 
 AdventureGirl (3)    (51 / F-M / South Africa)
23-Jan-13 7:09 pm
@Nzsweetie24: I believe honesty is the best policy so just be open and up front. As they say if u chase him his shallow. We all have our baggage / scars / burdens to bear. We survive and move on.

 

 

 
 
 Sammy2 
23-Jan-13 7:13 pm
@AdventureGirl: nicely said:)

 

 

 
 
 AdventureGirl (3)    (51 / F-M / South Africa)
23-Jan-13 7:15 pm
@Sammy2: Thank u. :-)

 

 

 
 
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