I was with someone for 6 years and we loved each. He joined the rescue squad and fire department but he would spend every day down there. At first I didn't mind it BC it was for the community but it got to the point that I didn't see him at all. Then some 19 yr old was posting stuff on his fb page and I asked him about it and he said it was nothing. Come to find out he was trying to hook up with her. The day of my bday he sent me a text saying he needed a break which of course hurt me. Here's the confusing part he still sends me texts saying he loves me and wants to be with me. What I don't understand is if this is true why doesn't he come back? Or why wont he just leave me alone so I can find someone else? Any ideas on what to do BC I'm clueless ... :/

Change your number start new

Yea change ur number im from va
thats the way our men roll

Tell him how it is he can't have you both

Ignore him. He wants to run around gettin his **** wet & with u on the back burner when he needs u again

I have changed my number several times and one of my friends keeps giving it to him but I can't figure out which one. The 19 yr old stopped talking to him after he dumped me it was just a game to her and she wants to be my friend. He doesn't even have a reason for leaving all he says is that he got tired of being accused of cheating but like I said he never came home so what was I suppose to think

Ignore him

Something else I forgot to add he refuses to come get his stuff and if I ignore him he comes to my house :/

@YorkieLuv5 he wants a safety net just in case the new thing doesnt work out

@YorkieLuv5: are you ready to be done with him?