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Secrets (by Briteeyes1211)
I am having an interesting convo with someone and id like to know ur opinion as well. If u r in a relationship with someone, they say they love u and noone else, but dont want anyone to know ur together, they say cuz of the choas it will cause....do u think u should stay in the relationship, would u think they were asshamed/embarassed of u or even possibly they didnt want others to know cuz they had other boyfriend/girlfriend on the line. What would u think? Shouldnt ur lover be proud and would want to announce they found love if in fact it was love?
@Briteeyes1211: Something is wrong in the relationship. Ultimately, there's no reason why he wanted to keep it secret unless he is possibly married . Well, a heart to heart talk will probably gives a little answer if not then meeting his family is a good next step.
(53 / F-M / California)I agree i would be happy to show people the man that i cared about to the world. What chaos unless hes got something to hide. Something fishy there girly. You better get to the bottom of it. Because i would definitely introduce my man to my family and friends.
Yep my thoughts exactly. and i got to the bottom of it, it ended the exact way i expected it to, my fears and ur thoughts were correct. But its all good :) i dont want a man thats not willing to tell the world im his woman!!!!
On the other hand though.....some ppl are very private, I wld not introduce someone to my family till I was VERY VERY serious about him. To introduce them to my kids I wld have to be absolutely positive n my heart and head that he was a keeper, and family and friends are so wrapped up together to meet them it wld be inevitable to meet kids. jmo tho....
@Briteeyes1211: he has something to hide. he has another chick on here or somewhere. i'd say dump da niggah he wasting yo time clock ticking. its apparent its obvious cmon u know better home gurl quit ignoring da truth reality told me to tell u to "wake da **** up" move on to da next chapter close da book up n call it a day. u deserve better
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