Is that the lesson you want to teach your son? To continue a cycle of wrong? Or teach him to rise above others wrongdoing? Just asking....

Kama,you know what,uare makin alot of senc. The bride 2b left him4 another man,the money he could hav spent on his son,

was cleaned out by the same girl. Karma

That might be true, but what iam trying to tell you is that by not giving into his proposal and showing him that you dont need him or care will be a kick in his manhood right there.......to me it almost sounds like you still love and care for him and you are trying to fool yourself by saying you will leave him at the alter......

[QUOTE=JLaDawn;194527]Is Damn! uv found my week spot"my son!" guess what i do to that man,can affect him too

[QUOTE=justbmyself;194513]They are just words to get to you. Revenge is not the answer. Just say good bye shut the door in his face and move on. if he did this once he will do it again.

That would be a good one but constant contact with the past can bring up old feelings and draw her closer to being hurt again.

Every decision we as parents make affect our children...I try to weigh my actions by the little eyes watching and learning.

Why would you want to be like him if its not you.

Amen