so i was seein this girl for about a week and things were goin as they should for a relationship that new. well she dumped me because apparently my ex threatened her. i never thought she would act like this, especially considering she cheated on me and forced me into the situation im in. so i went off on her. to the point i had her in tears. upon demanding an answer, she stated that shes affraid to let me go even though we arent together. she said she will not allow me to move on because nobody can be the father i am to our kids. with me leaving she wont survive cause daycare is far more expensive than i am. she hasnt seen anyone in about 6 months because she doesnt want to start over, yet she isnt sure if she wants to get back together. i will NOT be held at arms length! i wont be played, nor will i accomadate her. but i cant get out till spring. shes made it clear that she will undermine any relationship i step into, and she wants me to be friends with benefits with her untill she decides what she wants. are you serious? do i look like bill clinton? what kinda jumbled mass of crap is goin through her freakin mind? do i want to get involved in this web of terds again? i dont! sometime before today ends she wants to sit and discuss our issues. you had a slice of cheater pie and thought it was a great idea to tear our family apart...... i cant forgive that! so im tempted to walk out today....... but i wont do that to my children. this whole thing makes me wanna....

Screw that. Kick her ass out and make her leave. You get the kids. She's just wanting someone she can use.

I agree

Wow . . that is so crazy . .

Paul, I think ur a nice guy and just want to say get the fvck away from her now. For god sakes, u are miserable. U deserve happiness. U could still be around for ur kids, hun

i actually agree with singlefather on thatn. Kinds reminds me of one o my ex's with the whole "im not done with u, but im not gonna be with you" thing. She said that the whole time she ah.. "blew" through my group of now exfriends, if ya catch my drift.

@PaulG7719: she let the right one slip away. Do it only for the kids. She's done enough damage.

@single: that would be great... however when she renewed the lease last year i was at work.... so guess whos name is not on that legally binding contract. now im here in indy by myself. i have no family and my friends.... well..... they arent friends. my only option is to go into the streets or stay here. im here cause my kids need me. i cant prove her unfit so taking the kids is out of the equasion. if we didnt have kids i wouldnt be stuck. there are absolutely no jobs here. so im screwed till tax time. and even then she says i owe her over 2 grand. however she aint gettin diddly. i hate the fact that im stuck but my kids mean more to me than my own self.

@LovelySummeRayne: i hear ya rayne. my ex wife did that exact same thing.

well hey, do you have a job? Find you a place of your own to rent. You all the time telling other guys on here "be a man", well buddy, it is now your time to be a man and do what is best for you and your kids.