Would like to here from all but especially u men, If a woman is really into it and feeling a guy on a first date and shows that physically what do y'all REALLY think of her? just a piece of a** or are u ever just glad that she is as into u as u are her?

@LaDawn1974: it actually wierds me out a little when a woman gets very physical on the first date. Second date is better for that or third but first date I'm not interested in being physical. I want to get to know u first on a first date.

Actually im shy when face to face with someone. Get me warmed up to talk im good. Not into feeling up a guy or sleeping with them on the first dates. Maybe six or seven months down the road i would consider it. At least till i get to know him better and him get to know me better.

I think sex on a first date is a little over the top. I have done it and honestly, wished I hadnt, if I really liked the girl. I guess I felt a little respect had been lost and if there were any dates afterwards, they felt a little awkward. On the other hand, I have had lasting relationships with women that I have slept with on a second or third date.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that if you can get to know someone well enough by the second or third date to make that decision then you might has well have got it on on the first date. Takes me a little longer. Been my experience that carnal knowledge without intamate knowledge (yes there is a difference. Intamacy does not mean sex) only leads down one of two roads of worry: how to keep her or how to get rid of her. 9 times out of ten when two people lay down one of them gets up with feelings. Besides the best sex is physical, emotional and spiritual

@coyotesnuggler: once again...Amen!

How can u want someone that has no respect for themselves i have done it but looking back we either one respected the other if your at that point on a first date how can u build on that

If i get it on the first date yea are just a piece of ass if youu do it with me on the first date betcha im not the first or last 2 catagory of women ladies or well you know

@LaDawn1974: lol good to agree with you again

@Elhefe: and if ur willing to 'get' it on the first date what does that make you? why is only looked down on women? i personally aint gonna have any respect for the man that attempts it on first date...