Awwwww....just found out my family is throwing me a 'surprise' birthday bbq! Anyone elses family just make ur heart melt?

Nope. But its awesome u have that. Love every minute of it :) and happy birthday

@Acire: aww I am sorry. I do love and appeciate em everyday. I think they are the reason it is not too hard for me to stay single. I dont have to fear being alone and making choices outta that fear. Have the luxury of waiting for one that will enhance my life rather than fulfill it.

If you dont want it ask you're family to donate money to charity instead. problem solved and a good deed done.

@petergabriel: i think u missed the whole point of this thread....and in my family we dont give presents for bds, we spend time together and celebrate life! So no money involved to be donated, and no problem needing solved.

Awwwwww, thats nice. maybe i jumped to a conclusion too hastily. boredom you see. enjoy you're day

@petergabriel: np...have done that once or twice me ownself ;o)