Please do not turn this into a joke/ long winded example post. If you give a Face To Face sign, or A Voice to Voice over the phone/Texting, please specify the differance. Let's stay on topic so it may remain easily referred back too. . . . signs that I know of.. . F.2.F. they are looking at the walls, around the room. . Making no eye contact at all. The unnecessary over exaggerated facial reflexions. . . . over the Phone/V.2.V. Hem-Hawing about the subject. Yawning to pause to collect a plausible next line. Alot of a, a, a's and ya'know's . . .are good signs. Boastful talk that does not add-up. . . ok People, what are your RED FLAG WARNING signs?

Although you didnt mention it Heels....one of my biggest redflags is when they don't wanna actually talk on the phone but want to communicate primarily via text...that says to me that they are probably caring on multiple conversations with other women/men and lying abt it....that cld just be me tho....

F2F: nervous ticks such as fingers too jittery or constantly touching or itching of oneself.
V2V: excessive uhs and wells and slight stuttering.

F2f: cant look at u always lookin around. V2v: always changing the subject to deture the main subject ur tryin to talk bout.

@JLaDawn: so good to have you back online. @Paul: thank you.

Awwww thanx Heels, taking it one day at a time...

Accusing you of cheating just out of the blue, for no reason, always checking up on you asking what time you be home or where you at! That way they can make plans and time for their cheating cuz they know where you are and the time you be back home!

@heikeva: idk that my husband did that stuff had been for yrs

Well, ya'll have covered it all except when you're f2f they come home late from work everynight for a week and before they would come home at the same time they're definitely up to no good!

how is this a direct signs of lying? should be signs for a post on Cheating or Controlling Partner