When u guys send a wink, what exactly are u expecting in return? A wink back of acknowledgement, a ty, a hey how u doing? R we suppose to reply and speak first, im jus curious what men r looking for when they send a wink, thanks. :)

I think winks are used by a lot of guys as an all out attack on the masses. This type of guy probably winks at every girl online hoping to get at least 1 or 2 responses. Kinda like casting a wide net. That, or either they're too knot-headed to figure out how to actually converse

@Ram318: from the responses i get when i wink back my vote goes for knot-headed!

Yeah i dont understand it. I figure its an attempt sent to hundreds of girls as well, otherwise they would take the time to communicate.

I think their intention is, and the way I expect them to work is if I send one and get one back, there is mutual interest for further contact.

@nightwolf58: can see ur point...is why i answer winks

@Briteeyes1211: well im scott i wink just 2 say hi and hope u reply

@farmbuilder: im new 2 this online dateing and winks r fast and if u wont 2 talk u will reply thats just me and no i dont wink at everyone just the girls i like

Thanks for ur responses. In the past i have winked back and sometimes started a convo, i jus didnt know how others looked at them and if men sent to all women or if they hand picked them. Thanks for ur input :)

@Briteeyes1211: I dont abuse them like I guess some guys do either. I only send a wink to someone that really interests me and is kind of close to my age, lol