Why is it most people chose to go for looks and size ? What happen to do judge a book by the cover the same should go for people to

Well i can't speak for anyone else but i just don't find fat guys attractive and there has to be some physical attraction or i can't make it work. Not to mention i like someone who can keep up.

I feel like a lot of it is pressure from society and their peers. No one expects a good looking person to date someone who isn't *attractive* by general standards. I agree that there has to be a physical attraction in order for a relationship to work, but I also believe that once you get to know someone, their outward appearance can change depending on their personality. For instance, a very attractive man, once you get to know him, can appear ugly to you, if he is a jerk or mean or whatever. Conversely, an unatractive man, once you get to know him, can appear good looking, if he has a personality that attracts you... Imho

For and intimate relationship definatly has to be some kind of physical attraction but for me if i cant be friends and you dont stimulate spiritualy,emotionaly that the deal breaker

I actually like some meat on a girls bones. I find peoples minds more attractive than bodies but I do have a limit too. You skiny skiny and I'll be scared of breaking you. If you HUGE i'll be scared of you breaking me. Most women are somewhere inbetween which is what I like. :)

Most of the "fine" girls i have been with have about a 3day shelf life

@Elhefe: sounds you are shopping for them lol they aren't freezer goods.

@Elhefe: thats the way I feel about the "Hot" guys!

Well I've only been called cute so what's my shelf life? Lol

Well the conversation is about as stimulating with a totinas pizza so yea i see your frozen goods connection lmao