On the 21st of November, I recently got a call from my ex-boyfriend Sergio and I dont know what to do. Should I give him a second to be my lover again? I need some advice. I love him, I'm in love with him. I'm confused and lost and I don't know what to do. Someone please help me??????

@Jakie20126: give him a second to be your lover then if he fuk up move on

@Yubel: That's the thing I want to but I'm scared to. . . he had hurt me really bad and I'm scared that he'll hurt me again.

Then he is more than likely going to hurt you again. That was the case for me. An ex showed up and I gave him another chance after all his apologizing, and he just turned around to dump me on New Year's Eve last year...of all days.

Yes and if that happens that why u have a ace in the hole if u think the outcome going to happen dont beat yourself up over it just forget and move on use your ace card in life not eveyone going to like u thats a fact u have to deal with just be happy and get better cuz u can do better theres always better fish in the sea

Do u really want to put urself thru dat again? Wat wud make u think he aint goin 2 do it again, have a long think abov b4 making ur decision, bt anyways good luck in wat u decide

But the reason he dumped me in the first place was because hes under a lot of stress and well, sence our distances are far apart, he thought that not knowing when we'll see each other was getting to me but I told him that it wasn't. Just as long as we see each other was all I cared about. I didn't care if it takes a year, weeks, months, or days, as long as we saw each other was what I wanted.

Sounds pretty deep for you only bei.g 18 how old is he? You ever loved someone else?

Distances can be a pain in the butt -,-

@dustin024: i had met my heart and soul when i was 19 and he was 37. He was my world. And he would have been for all eternity but he was k.i.a. love can be found in all ages.