Is it right for me to try get to know two to four ladies at the same time to see if one of them would actually willing to be with me in a serious relationship?

Hell no!! how you supposed to know if any will pan out,im pretty sure everyone here is doin the same thing

Its not right for anyone to do that, but men and women the same do it!! The question is how would u ever really know if one will work out if u got 4 or 5 you wouldnt be able to keep them all apart!!

@SassyOak23: yeah i said that wrong... I think its ok to talk to a few at first but not gettin serious... Its the same as if you were just datin. how else are u supposed weed out the junk

@Kaotikdad: talking and dating is 2 different things... I have talked to a couple guys to get to know them and then one out shined the other so i focused on him, but all is well that ends well! Not really bc im on this website lol

Yea its fine as long as you're up front abt it and haven't made a commitment to any of them.

It's true. I just don't want it to make it seems Luke in some kind of player or a cheaters. Though I wouldn't make commitment while I still trying to get to know another. When I try to get to know a woman, I would do it one at a time but when another jumps in while I try to get to know one, and if anything bad happens, I would lose my chance with the second one. I mean I never know.

Wotld it be ok for the 2 to 4 chix to be doing the same thing with other guys? There's your answer

It's more like a question/aswerish. But I see your point. To answer that, I don't know. I guesse who ever is more into it wins. I guess.