When you have known some one for a while (the time frame depends on individual people) and really like them and they like you, what is some thing they have done that was a total deal breaker? My answer: Became possessive. It is one thing to call me your girl. A whole other ball game to treat me like your property. This is a deal breaker for me. Jealousy can be adorable as long as it isn't overbearing and turning into possessiveness.

Been there...and it turned ugly...he is now in jail...i now have a broken jaw and scars!!........

I have been there. He ditched town before they caught him. As far as I know they are still watching. I was pretty tore up. But I walked away. That is what counts.

Thinking he could talk to me anyway he wanted while in public or even in private for that matter. Arguements are meant to remain between the two people not to be held in piggly wiggly parking lot or infront of ur children. So humilating me infront of others is a deal breaker for me

@Briteeyes: That would be a second for me. I rarely raise my voice. I prefer talking it out. But if they tried discussing some thing for private time in public, I would walk away without a second thought. That is wrong.

i agree with both of you. Often times men just need to get over themselves

Lying is fine. But if I find out - bam!!

Betrayal and direspect....he does either and watch me walk away leaving him wanting

If they asked if they could tie me up ! Yeah that would be a deal breaker lol

now anyhow?