I am posting this in the most motherly heart I own. I'm not being judgmental nor pointing fingers when I use the word 'you'. I've been looking around and wanted to give my point of view. Dating Sites or not a Genie in a Bottle. You need to work this just as in day to day reality. PROFILES are the appetizers. Most are lacking and incomplete. Activities and Interest are listed but not used as post leads. PICTURES are the tease. Our pictures are dark, distant and some or just vulgar. Updating often is the key. POSTS of Boredom show lack of imagination. Vanity posts are as ugly as a plane crash out in the open seas. Then there's the beggars, 'oh, pay attention too me.' your showing the weak in your knees. If 'needy' is a word you read often and you don't understand why, stop and take heed. Picture this if you will. A friend has invited you over but he has THAT CAT. You go on to the visit and sure enough that cat has jumped onto you lap. you smile and scratch it a few times and sit it on the floor. now you've got a few hairs on your clothes and hands. That cat's not having any of that so there he is, back in your lap. This time when you try to set him aside out comes the claws and he's got you by your shirt, skin and hair. He's looking to anchor the fourth set just anywhere. Now your leaving even though your visits not through. your covered in hair and it's up and in your nose. . . are you understanding what I'm trying to convey?

I am understanding. :) I love the way you describe things.

You are completely right! Makes me think about some of my awful posts -_- I do also need to change my picture. It has been the same one this entire time.

@MissNicole2: Thank you dear.

@Twoinchheels: You are very welcome :)

What do you think? should the title have been, I'VE GOT THE P's?

@Twoinchheels: thats an excellent analogy!! i understood it completely. well put :)

@PaulG7719:

that was so well put, i had to poke myself in the eye and read it again.... see?

Yup ! I understand it ! Good way to put it too !