I still would like to see if I have already messaged and/or winked at a user when I view their profiles. This way I will know that they are not replying so I will just stop sending the users unwanted messages. I do not want to keep bother somebody who is not interested. Thanks have a nice day

@tractorjohn: U know u can in a way just a lil hassle and time have 2 go back in who i messaged who i winked at!! Click on connections and u get there iam sure u know that already its a bit a pain in the.........tho!!!

You find that stuff under connections. Even who sent you roses or them to you. Whos winked at you or you winked at. Messeges too. Also who you veiwed and whos veiwed you.

@heikeva: Yes I know but it would be nice to see if I have or haven't messaged somebody when I'm looking at their profile. You know what I mean?

@tractorjohn: I know exactly what u mean would b alot easier that way!!! ;p

@heikeva: I think it would be easier & if the girl doesn't reply then I know to leave her alone. I mean no sense of keep sending an unwanted message, right? If I wrote to you & you don't reply then in a few days I see you viewed my profile I may forget I sent you a letter last week. So what am I to do go look somewhere else to see if I did? By the time I do all that I might forget everything that I wanted to say to you. I guess I'm just too forgetful & lazy for this site...

@tractorjohn maybe make another suggestion to andres about it. See what he can do.

@brats52005: I have twice already, once about two months ago & again in this thread.

This one is a bit tougher because it would require additional Database calls to implement, and every time the site has to access the Database, it slows things down.

If there is more interest in this feature, I'll add it to the To-Do list.

Thanks admin,i'm beginning to wonder if this site is working at all,i've sent so many messages and even winks but only received 1 wink from someone in return so i don't want to be seen as a spammer so i stopped. Your reaction to this issue gives me hope that this site is actually working.