Hey all wolfu here single or at least i think so... Sum girl whos been comeing and seeing me for a while begs 2 differ... But shes away at college 4 2 years and we havent even had sex or anything what shud i do? Her family dosnt know about me and i cant help but feeling played... She is supposidly a virgin but idk what 2 beleive anymore jus wondering if you all think this is real? Or if i shud persue other oppertunities

I feel almost like we r growning appart, we have been dateing almost a year, and she more then ever seems like jus a friend now, she wuddnt give me any, n now i dont really want it, wud prefure 2 b jus friends butsum of the girls i met on here id really like 2 have... What do u all think?

Thank u all 4 the help so much,

If u really feel like your growing apart and that ur only friends at this point then u should express to her how you feel be upfront and honest with her. And be honest with ladys u are talking to on here, honesty is always the right way to go, even if it hurts.

I have more then once but she cries n tells me no... N then she jus hugged me and cried on my chest the 1 time. And we didnt talk about it anymore that day then n she left but next day she called me lyke nothing happened, and i am trying 2 be honest... I jus dunno where we stand... She is 4 hrs away now 4 the next 2 years... We never had actual sex... We never slept in the same bed... 2 me she is jus a friend....

Ive told her id never marry her or have kids with her.... I do love her... But as a friend... We been friends now 2 long i think.... I need sumthing real i cant jus wait 4 sum day that will probably never come... And even if it did lyke i say now feels lyke we r friends and a real relationship wit her mite ruin it i think

I say this tell her again how you feel. And let her cry apoligize for not feeling the same way about her and then tell her that you have grown apart. That she will find a good man some day. But just let her cry. Stay strong about it. Her hurt wil eventually go away. Also you keep up that way you both will be miserable.

I agree with brats on this.

just because she wont have sex doesnt mean she dont love u with all her heart and wants u 2 b with her, if a girls crying about that, u may b pushin her 2 far...if ur truely in love with someone u r good friends/bestfriend...idk mayb...her goin to colloge is something really important 2 her or waitin is a good idea in her head, she wanted 2 see if u'll wait for her...but if sex is more important 2 you when whatever her reason is for waitin...then yeah let her go...just tryin to state that i kinda thing its real but only if u let it be...no one can truely tell u how u feel in ur heart...only u know...askin us makes no diff...u deside...is it real? look at the facts? u know how she makes u feel?