I had a "bestie". Her childrens father lives close to me. One day she called me and said he saw me walking with my baby & it was cold. He wanted to give us a ride. But didnt stop because he thought shed get mad. She told me "i wouldnt mind". And i told her vise-versa. If u was walkin with your bby & saw my childrens father i wouldnt mind at all him giving you a ride. We were really good friends for years. But 1 day i did get a ride with her childrens father. And she called me freakin out. Said she was mad bcus i didnt tell her. Mind you this is the same day just hours after it happened. I hadnt got the chance to tell her. Didnt cross my mind. Esp. Since she was a good friend & shes the 1 who suggested she wouldnt care. I dropped her bcus i feel like the bond was broke. Obviously she doesnt trust me. And things wont ever b the same. But she keeps calling and i do miss her. My mom says make up with her. Any input i would appreciate.

From what i understand it sounds like she had trust issues. And i would say make up but make her understand that she hurt you and your friendship will not be the same. That because she didnt give you the trust you deserve as her friend.

Thank you. I will be thinking about what you said.

Your welcome

@kellikel: sorry to hear this ..I do believe when you say "bestie", the relationship is deep, meaning time & circumstances tested the friendship.. I think, she's not in her best mood at the time and just impulsive. Talk to her and explain your feelings.. I hope it helps a little. Take care

I would make up with her, sometimes emotions run high & we over react & dont realize it till its over. Im sure it probably did bother her since she wasnt informed but honestly it would of struck a nerve even if she did know, its jus part of it, not that she dont trust u, its the point behind it. Listen to what she has to say cuz u refusing to communicate is leaving room for true fear on what may have happened. If u didnt do anything wrong, work it out & convince her of tht, dont run away from it.

I did call her yesterday. We made up. And that entire situation was petty on both parts considering how good of friends we have been for soo long. Never had any issues b4. Im just at a place n my life where im ready for peace. I dont like drama. And i dont cause or deal with "trouble". Im a quiet kind hearted woman. A lover not a fighter. But that only applies to people who treat me right. Cus i'll fight a b!tch quick if need be..lol:) i really do appreciate everyones input...thanks. Sometimes you need others lookin in from the outside to put things into perspective. Have a nice day ladies!

@kellikel: glad to hear, it ends well...

Glad u guys worked it out!!

Yeah with besties its hard when trust gets damaged but in the end if they are truly besties then they will come back and you'll make up just like yall did. Glad it worked.