is there a guy out there that wont beat on me or be abusive in anyway? White guys only

Why only white sweety? And what type of white guy do you want? Do you know what your even looking for? Just curious.

@athena1988: If u you beat them with a bat they wont abuse you. Lol

Why would she want to go to jail for attempted murder? Just leave call a womens shelter its all good.

@brats52005: I just mean take up for yourself, dont take it. Too many women let men abuse them. If they all got hot grease poured on them they would stop abusing women.

@athena1988: some advice... take some self defense classes. be prepared for any type of person that walks into your life. if you approach any situation as the victim, youve already lost half the battle. do your research, it pays to be a snoop. and walk away with your head high the second you see a red flag. but above everything, dont settle for less than you deserve.

@hallandrew57: i have done the abuse thing and went to jail for something i didnt do. So my advice is to run and find shelter and they help legally.

well said, i dont see the point in abusing women. I would never hit a woman. If they gonna act like that they dont deserve them. In my opinion.

or some hot grits and make a meal lol

and dont neglect to report any sort of abuse to your local police. youd be suprised how many of them arent first time offenders. i speak from experience and i work as a prison guard. send em to me, we are thrilled to deal with them :)