No prob, I actually made it its own thread so we can all figure out how to give you guys what you're looking for. I even "stuck" it until we do. :)

@Andres: Just starting to see some forum police form back up....guess they forget abt the report button. When I run across it again, and I will, Ill report it to u...

So is the issue with the current content of the Forums compared to before or the policing by other users? I'm trying to understand what the exact issue is so we can have an open discussion about it and fix it.

the problem for me andres is when we post a thread or comment n a thread someone else start the subject gets closed down because ppl are afraid to speak there minds here in the forums....for instance we had a really good thread on cpital punishment....and the conversation went pm becuz ppl didnt wanna git jumped... that is first example in my mind...an example of old moonshine post for me wld be thread abt dating sum1 with kids...gave me insight i had never considered..negative reactions r to be expected but attacks r sooo personal now...like telling the annoying 12.5 penis guy he has a .0005 inch penis...mebbe Rich and I are just jaded

Maybe we are jaded and have seen the same stuff too much...and maybe we're just venting bcuz a forum we were a part of from the beginning has grown stale and isn't growing. Maybe I'm just wrong and am an ass....but I do see more people show up then disappear after a short stay....Maybe I'm just having a sh*tty day...ya'll tell me.

i am having a greaat day darlin and I think its more that although this IS Andres baby I love love loved the forums and am just disappointed, like you said, to see them grow stale....every single messag or text I get discussing something in the forums cuz someone is afraid to post I take personally. I am tuff as hell and cant say how any times i have canceled a post instead of posting it, th ensuing frenzy just aint worth it....

Well...to prove our point, no one else has posted abt this....are they afraid? Or do they just disagree? THAT is the whole point tho. If we're wrong, come tell us...or if u agree, come agree....but for Gods sake, have an opinion....and don't be afraid to voice it. On the upside...there IS NFL football tnite lol

This makes me sad JLaDawn and MrRamtastic... Yall are what makes the threads fun(ny) a good percent of the time... What could I do, as a user, to make it a better experience?

lmao! Great minds think alike! I was just gonna come on and appeal for other opinions myself! We r adults...if y'all think we r full of crap then tell us so, so we can go away....

@Kait: Oh msKait, keep ur head up. We're just 2 old Dating.mobi fools rambling away abt the good old days wen wit and humor and debate abounded. Wen u could ribbed someone w/o their feelings getting hurt. I haven't posted this much in one day in a while...but maybe that's my fault...or maybe I'm just an old Dating.mobi horse that needs to be taken out back and shot and put out of its misery lol