Thread: Who thinks they can answer this question?: "How does one fall in love"

Who thinks they can answer this question?: "How does one fall in love" (by Davidbird)

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im1made4u (22)

(55 / F-M / California)
2-Sep-14 1:11 am

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@im1made4u: Well there are people today with the same values most of them married their high school or college sweet hearts and they are going strong today. Be the change you want to see in the world.

my values are just fine & iv got no problem with respecting myself.

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im1made4u (22)

(55 / F-M / California)
2-Sep-14 1:19 am

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@im1made4u:

when i was in 2nd yr collge i met my husbnd ,.year 2005,.we been together as i am hiS GF until i graduated yr.2007..unfortunately since we had been living together were not gettng stronger,.gettng worst lol.,

Maybe its cuz your still learning & one or both of you are growing smarter. Which is opening eyes to more. Idk

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takenbytom
2-Sep-14 1:48 am

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@im1made4u:

when i was in 2nd yr collge i met my husbnd ,.year 2005,.we been together as i am hiS GF until i graduated yr.2007..unfortunately since we had been living together were not gettng stronger,.gettng worst lol.,

Maybe its cuz your still learning & one or both of you are growing smarter. Which is opening eyes to more. Idk

his heart owe by someone,,

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B3dR00m3y3z (11)

(41 / M-F / Texas)
2-Sep-14 2:48 am

@im1made4u: I am sorry I do not see where I made a slant against anyone's values I do not know what is anybody's heart nor will I speculate. I mean I just got home from an Celebrate Recovery meeting I can only take a moral inventory of myself. I apologize if I offended you in anyway.

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im1made4u (22)

(55 / F-M / California)
2-Sep-14 3:32 am

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@im1made4u: I am sorry I do not see where I made a slant against anyone's values. I apologize if I offended you in anyway.

sorry if you thought you offended me. Just replied how i want the world to be i guess. Lol!

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im1made4u (22)

(55 / F-M / California)
2-Sep-14 3:36 am

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@im1made4u:

when i was in 2nd yr collge i met my husbnd ,.year 2005,.we been together as i am hiS GF until i graduated yr.2007..

Maybe its cuz your still learning & one or both of you are growing smarter. Which is opening eyes to more. Idk

his heart owe by someone,,

sorry don't know what you meant.

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Davidbird (0)

(28 / M-F / Kansas)
2-Sep-14 7:40 pm

[QUOTE=takenbytom;507218]

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@ramrod007: Not sure about love at first sight. But I agree with you on falling out of love. Been there, done that. I can't discount love at first sight either. Even though I have never experienced it, there are those who claim to have. Besides, who is going to be the one to say when the relationship goes from lust to live. And does every relationship start with lust? I say no, it doesn't.

As I said before its not just lust. It is a variation of feelings. The thing about lust is that at the beginning along with the curiosity and the other emotions lust is typically mistaken for love. And over time as that person thinks about it while the relationship develops they believe more and more that it was love.

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Zilya777
3-Sep-14 9:43 am

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At some point you make a decision to be in love, whether you realize it or not.

I agree. It is just a happier, more romantic, mysterious, spiritual, mistical way of thinking to believe any different . Then simply " We choose to '"

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SweetNothings
4-Sep-14 12:41 am

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At some point you make a decision to be in love, whether you realize it or not.

I agree. It is just a happier, more romantic, mysterious, spiritual, mistical way of thinking to believe any different . Then simply " We choose to '"

Glad someone agrees with me! It's a decision to trust someone with your heart. That's how I see it anyway...

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ryiki (1)

(34 / M-F / Florida)
17-Sep-14 11:19 pm

@Davidbird: by stop trying so dang hard and just being yourself so that the one who is trully for you can be able to find you, and not that image you try to pull over everyones eyes.

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