I do not have a broken heart now. It healed fully after these 3 months of hard work on myself. But I was severely hurt. I gave nearly 3 years to a guy that used me in every way he could think up. So, yea I have become a little pessimistic about love. That is why all I look for are friends. I'm not ready to risk my heart. But I am not built for meaningless relationships. So I stay alone. That works for me quite well. I'm protecting myself.

@MissNicole: that the best way also dnt involve urslf in relationshp until u hav fulfaith....

@Chocolatycharm i think you are right....

I don't plan to start any relationship any time soon. That is my point.

@MissNicole: somethng wrng frm my side coz u r nt replyng my text...i dont thnk so i had u hurt....well if u r buzy thn fyn will nt distrb bt talk if free...

@missnichole i understand your point.

Gotta do what ever makes you feel safe.

MissNicole, I have been here.... But what people won't tell ya, it's ok to let yourself heal, but unless you get out and expose yourself to a better selection of men, you will be alone and lonely until you're a ripe age. Don't self sabatoge yourself in the process of desiring love and happiness. You do not need to jump in and out of meaningless relationships if that's not what you want. But get up brush yourself off enhance yourself and mingle and date better men!:)

I have healed. :) And the problem is mainly that I don't want a new relationship of any kind. Friendship is all I'm looking for. If I fall in love, then okay. If I don't, maybe that is how it is supposed to be.