jesus did no chicks

i am not judging anyone. I just have personal preferences.

including yourself, i tried to be nonromantic, good buddies with you, regardless of your obvious health issues, but now you are being judgemental of me, when i have dated "ugly" girls before with facial deformations. I just don't want my girl to crush me, or die at age 30 because of complications of the heart.

i definitely don't judge people based on their class, and you very obviously don't know me at all assuming i do, because i know i am a low class citizen. I barely make enough money to feed myself, and put a roof over my head, so think before you speak ill of me please.

and you are perfect? Probably very far from it just like everyone else including me. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of god right? You need to just quit stalking out my posts. It's creepy obsessive. Stop. I have reported you. I can't even offer good, sound advice without you making it seem like the wrong advice, just because i said i don't do fa chicks. So what!! I bet you don't do fat guys either. Not because they are not your type, but it is physically impossible. I guarantee, you will deny it, that you have physical sandards to, you are probably a very nice girl, when you ain't trying to bring people down to your level of maturity, like i said i tried to be your friend, message you, talk, whatever, but you took offense to the fact that i am just not into you. Why? Why don't you turn the other cheek if your so dang perfect huh?

@IrishLove1988: why are you even hating on me to befin with anyway? I have never, ever, spoken to you before, period. How do you think you know so much about me when we have never said a word to eachother before now? You hating because of jladawn being a snitch? Telling the whole world i don't date fat chicks? Well so what, she's doing my job for me as far as i'm concerned, but she is setting the totally wrong tone. I'm friends with everyone, or try to be no matter what they look like, their "class" what ever that's supposed to mean, race, i don't care everyone has a heart and needs someone to talk to once in awhile, and i try to be that person they talk to. Jladawn thinks i am a bad person because i am unattracted to obesity, not because of it being unattractive, but because i plan on living awhile, and i only want a girl that's going to do the same and not die on me or get serious complications due to their not taking care of their diet and fitness. I'm scared of being a widower more so than being crushed in bed baisically. I have even dated two fat girls, but broke up with both of them when i seen just how unhealthy they really lived. These were real bf/gf scenarios too. Like i actually met them, kissed them, took them out, etc. But i am more attracted to a healthy female than an unhealthy, and unactive one. That's what i meant by "i don't date fat chicks" i don't remember ever saying the word "do" instead of "date" like jladawn keeps saying. But if i did, it was a slip up, and i didn't mean to use such offensive terminology, just like i try not to cuss, but slip up every now and then. No one is perfect so quit acting like you are. You are no better or worse than everyone else. We are all equal in God's eyes, and all sin is sin regardless, so please don't make me mad at you too, and you and i can be friends regardless of what jladawn says or thinks, she is just close minded obviously.

@gooddude88: Oh, where to begin. Firstly, You and I have not been formally introduced. My name is Irish :) LaDawn up there ^^^^ Is a good buddy of mine, as are many other members of this forum. As such, I'm sure some of them can tell you that I am one of thee absolute, LEAST judgemental people you will ever meet. In my eyes, all are equal, until they prove otherwise. While I honestly don't care one way or another if you are mad at me or not, I do not assume myself to be better (or worse) than anyone else. They (And past posts) can tell you that I don't believe in God, or that Jesus Christ was a prophet/Messiah. I am Wiccan, and have a whole other belief system. I say this, because as stated above, I still respect who Jesus was and what he did for his fellow man. My comments above were directed at LaDawn, because she brought up Jesus. Honestly, the way that Jesus treated his followers is something that I find both Amazingly humbling, and increasingly rare. (PS. Jesus DID Mary Magdalen.) Oh, and LaDawn didn't rat you out. You ratted yourself out when you said you don't date *fat chicks* in another thread. Secondly, My only comment that was directed at you was my original post. I stand by it. I am not judging you. My intent was to point out the flaw. You don't want anyone to judge you, yet here you are judging all women based on the size of their jeans. You say that just because a woman is plus sized she is unhealthy, lazy, eats nothing but junk and doesn't take care of herself. That, pardon my french, is complete and utter BULLSH*T. I am a plus size female, as I'm sure you have figured out by now. I also happen to have a regular work out routine that I do every other day for an hour each time. I run Jog, or walk just about EVERY day. I eat mostly only veggies, fruit, rice, and moderate amounts of protein (As I have a genetic disorder that makes me have to regulate my diet very closely). I wake up every morning and Shower, dress, and go about my day. My health is near perfect, besides the fact that I am plus sized. My heart IS perfect, I know, because of an EKG I had done a year ago. I lead a very active lifestyle. I am telling you this because I am none of the things that you claim ALL BIG WOMEN are. So before you rush to judgement and judge me on appearance alone (Which by the way, is almost the perfect definition of shallow) take a step back and look in the mirror. Third, I would like to take a moment to call to your attention the huge amount of crap that is your *I don't want to be crushed in bed* issue. As stated, I am a big girl. My ex was a 6 ft tall, 200lb man. We shared a very healthy, active sex life. I assure you, he was never crushed. And if you ask him, to this day, he will tell you it was the best he ever had. (Yes, that includes girl on top.) ANY WOMAN who knows what she is doing in the bedroom can make it a very pleasurable experience. So, once more, before you rush to judgement, at least get your facts straight. Lastly, I would just like to say that the term *Fat Chick* is very derogatory and rude. How about calling us *Thick Chicks* or *Beautiful Plus Sized Goddesses of the Earth*? Because you know what? That is exactly what we are.

gives me a headache to see the posts!phew

Amen!