@SweetNothings: It depends on who is using the term s to where it is good or bad. Redneck can just refer to a country person, in which case the use of the term is not so bad. However the term can be used in the negative connotation as well. Racist, ignorant, bigoted, close-minded backwater. And just because someone calls themselves a red neck doesn't mean they are using the good version of it either. Hopefully someone else will give you an opinion too. Mine shouldn't be the only one out there.

@ramblinman: Well said. Because now, I'm thinking if many pronouns & descriptions.. Where it depends on who is saying it to whom, & the context & interpetation .Not the word or phase iitself.

@Zilya777: For me that word has too many negative connotations. I don't use it. But i don't fault anyone else for doing so.

@ramblinman: I agree. If we joke or describe ourselves.. Fine. But for others to do it. Bad idea.

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