Starting to resent my bf for leaving me hanging after sex

EDIT: A lot of people are concerned he?s very selfish and doesn?t care about me. I think I?m the most confused about how he?s handled this because he is the most selfless, caring, attentive, supportive, and loving human I have ever met. He?s never had a girlfriend and has only participated in (a lot) of drunken casual sex. Maybe he should get a little benefit of the doubt because of lack of relationship experience? Idk you tell me lol
Me (25F) and my bf (27M) have a great sex life. The only problem is he always get to finish and for me it?s optional.
I feel satisfaction from the connection I feel from sex, don?t get me wrong. But I think I can speak for most people when I say cumming is a nice thing to end with! There are times where I feel satisfied from the emotional connection it gave me and I?m okay with not finishing. However, most of the time I do want to finish. Sometimes he finishes me without me asking and sometimes it ends right there and he moves on with his day. It?s such a turn off for my partner to not want to get me off in the way they just got to do. I don?t want to have to ask for it because then it feels like a chore and I lose my desire to ***. I?ve told him he doesn?t have to eat me out but that he can finger me, use toys, watch me do it myself, etc. It honestly just hurts my feelings that he doesn?t want to make sure I?m satisfied. I?m starting to resent the fact I know he?ll *** everytime. I?ve had this conversation with him multiple times. Everytime he?s said he?ll stop assuming I?m not going to *** if I haven?t already and that he?ll communicate better.
Is it absurd to expect an orgasm if he gets one?
TL/DR; Bf doesn?t always finish me but he gets to everytime. Im starting to resent him for it. Is it absurd to expect an orgasm?


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