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My girlfriend went away and it's been really nice (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
12-Jul-21 3:30 am
My girlfriend went away and it's been really nice

My(38m) gf(33f) comes back today and I've just really enjoyed having my own space. I've gotten a lot of stuff done, and just the freedom to be able to relax, and generally have my own space without having to speak to anyone else, or without needing to share what I do etc. or what I watch or any of that stuff. I sometimes feel we are not totally compatible, but she doesn't seem to see that at all. I was really looking forward to her going away. I often need my own space, and it's just so rarely possible. A few hours apart is just not enough. But I have learned to deal with it and become accustomed to not getting enough space. It doesn't help that she is quite dependent on people, and by people I mean me as she doesn't have a lot going on outside of her job and our relationship. I've tried to encourage her, but she doesn't have a lot of interests on her own volition. It crosses my mind to break-up, and I think it would just be really hard. And I also don't have many options at the moment as my finances are not in a good place and haven't been for a little over a year now. I just feel a lot of pressure, and feel quite trapped, and I don't know what to do about it.
TLDR: I'm not sure if I should continue with this relationship and don't feel I'm in a position to make a decision anyway.


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 michelle54432 (-1)  (43 / F-M / Louisiana)
12-Jul-21 1:53 pm
My name is the same name I don dey and I don’t have know what to do for on the dating site so far I don dey and see how it goes and I will never do it for on the dating thing that I don’t want to get to know you see and I see am you going back here for a little bit I wan you have to call to talk about how it goes and I will never utttiooo you to know you don’t want to get

 

 

 
 
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