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[UPDATE] My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyfriend (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (30 / M-F / Massachusetts)
1-Apr-21 10:40 am
[UPDATE] My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyfriend

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I know the original post didn?t get much publicity but I wanted to do an update in case any of y?all were curious. Thank you for the support and I took a lot of your guy?s advice I?m very grateful.
So my (m22) and my boyfriend (m22) did get a call from Harry (m22) apologizing to us. He specifically called me but requested my boyfriend (WHO SIDENOTE IS NOW MY FIANC? SO I AM A VERY HAPPY MAN anyways :)) ) also be at the phone with me.
So Harry when on this speech about how he knows he was in the wrong and that he wants to repair a friendship with both of us. This was about two days after I made the original post. And suddenly he claimed he no longer had feelings for my fianc?. Yeah right. Of course neither of us believed him and honestly his apology was kind of ****.
I realized through the comments that he wasn?t a true friend and through more self evaluation that for awhile he was using me to get close to my fianc?. That realization hurt a lot and it definitely set back my development of getting over my social anxiety.
I told Harry I didn?t want to repair are friendship. That I Had realized he was using me. And that he definitely wasn?t over my fianc? just after two days. When he claimed to be in love with him for over a year. I told him how he blatantly tried to take away the love of my life and how much that deeply hurt me.
Harry didn?t take this well and exploded. He started cussing me out. Saying how he honestly could care less about my feelings. How I was never a very good friend. How I have a tendency to push people away (again that?s why it hurt so much losing him and feeling betrayed because I already have a difficult time keeping friends in the first place cause it?s hard not to push people away) He told me he only stayed my friend for the past few months to try to get in my fianc??s pants. Accused my fianc? of seducing him (honestly hilarious because my fianc? has a hard time flirting with ME because he gets so shy. Adorable though) he also claimed that I cheated on my fianc? with his ex boyfriend (definitely not true) at that point he was just trying to convince my fianc? to break up with me again over the phone. I hung up and blocked him after giving him a few harsh words.
So it?s been a few days since then. My fianc? and I joined a book club as one of the commenters suggested since he and I both take interest in books. And things are looking up. He introduced me to some people he knew that I shared a major with and it?s nice to have people that like what I like. And I?m starting to put myself out there more with the help of my fianc?.
And i proposed clearly. The whole thing kind of made me realize how much I loved him and I was already planning on proposing anyways. We had gone to a place that was special to us from when we were teenagers and we hadn?t been in about four years. So I proposed there. And he said yes. And now I?m very happy and could honestly care less about Harry.
Thanks to everyone who commented :) much love.
TLDR: Harry called to apologize and I told him I accept. His facade disappeared snd he cussed me out. He never wanted to be my friend. Just wanted my boyfriend who I?m now engaged to. Things are looking up and I feel overall happier.


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 braddahcuz1 (0)   (45 / M-F / Hawaii)
1-Apr-21 9:39 pm
@Sparky: Can't do that kind of thing..iT's like the BR0 - Code. If you no what I mean.LoL

 

 

 
 
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