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UPDATE: I (24F) have a crush on a guy (29M) at my grad school. I?ve been with my fianc? (25M) for 5 (by Sparky)
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UPDATE: I (24F) have a crush on a guy (29M) at my grad school. I?ve been with my fianc? (25M) for 5 years. How do I get rid of the crush?
Original post here.
Thanks for all your advice (except for everyone who gave me abuse or told me to just **** the guy I had a crush on)! I was worried the crush would stay, most people in the comments said it would go away, and I guess you were right.
I talked to my fianc? about it and when we were talking we realized I've been staying at school to study every evening and haven't been making much time for him. I leave school before 6pm now so I get home when he does after he's been to work and we're spending quality time together every day, which is making us closer and helping me remember all the great things that our relationship has.
I also talked to Will (a lot of you suggested that if I got to know him the crush would go away). I didn't tell him about the crush. I just made a friend. We're...very different. It would never work. I basically had 3 conversations with him and the crush died. He is fun to gaze at but we wouldn't even be together if we were both single (turns out he's engaged as well, go figure) and I don't have feelings for him anymore.
tl;dr - Will is out, Chris is in
Source.
Original post here.
Thanks for all your advice (except for everyone who gave me abuse or told me to just **** the guy I had a crush on)! I was worried the crush would stay, most people in the comments said it would go away, and I guess you were right.
I talked to my fianc? about it and when we were talking we realized I've been staying at school to study every evening and haven't been making much time for him. I leave school before 6pm now so I get home when he does after he's been to work and we're spending quality time together every day, which is making us closer and helping me remember all the great things that our relationship has.
I also talked to Will (a lot of you suggested that if I got to know him the crush would go away). I didn't tell him about the crush. I just made a friend. We're...very different. It would never work. I basically had 3 conversations with him and the crush died. He is fun to gaze at but we wouldn't even be together if we were both single (turns out he's engaged as well, go figure) and I don't have feelings for him anymore.
tl;dr - Will is out, Chris is in
Source.
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