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My (28f) mom (53f) is wanting to move in with me and my fiance until she can find another place to l (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My (28f) mom (53f) is wanting to move in with me and my fiance until she can find another place to live.
My mom text me yesterday and asked me if she could move in until she could get her SSI and find a place to live. I'm 28 and live with my fiance. A little backstory is probably needed, my mom is very manipulative and guilt trips me when I don't do what she wants or asks me to. I am also currently in therapy to help me deal with her. I honestly don't think that I could deal with her every day. Cause it can take up to 3 years to get her SSI plus I know she will take her time trying to find a place.
My fiance and I really don't need any added stress. We both have health issues, he's disabled and would be around her way more than I would have to and she's like the biggest pessimist I've ever encountered. We try not to bring those bad vibes into our home. It causes stress and puts everyone in a bad mood.
tl;dr I need some advice about trying to tell my mom she can't come live with me...
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My mom text me yesterday and asked me if she could move in until she could get her SSI and find a place to live. I'm 28 and live with my fiance. A little backstory is probably needed, my mom is very manipulative and guilt trips me when I don't do what she wants or asks me to. I am also currently in therapy to help me deal with her. I honestly don't think that I could deal with her every day. Cause it can take up to 3 years to get her SSI plus I know she will take her time trying to find a place.
My fiance and I really don't need any added stress. We both have health issues, he's disabled and would be around her way more than I would have to and she's like the biggest pessimist I've ever encountered. We try not to bring those bad vibes into our home. It causes stress and puts everyone in a bad mood.
tl;dr I need some advice about trying to tell my mom she can't come live with me...
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