When you take a girl out...first date....third date...100th date....do u have a spending limit? And if u do have a limit why????

Not a limit but we ain't goin to the Mercedes Benz lot either lol

Yes and it's BC I'm broke as hell I live on like a 50¢ a day budget

Generally bout fifty bucks on first date or two if we goin steady then usally no budget but like just me said im little on broke side after bills

Ok so this guy I know...was 12 13 14 yer old sweetheart........lost contact over the years...reconnected...he is coming up Memorial day weekend...wants to take me out...bf/ gf experience.......what should the budget look like then?

IMO: the 'budget' should be set by what the guy can afford. If he can afford steak and lobster, then awesome... if all he can afford is the 1$ Menu, then awesome.. at least he is trying to get out and date

@shellyme: i was raised that the man pays. not that it sexsist just manners so it should be up to him to decide the budget

agreed. I agree with megs too, whatever he can afford.

@Critter1211: my papa woulda beat my ass if i made a woman pay

@junderhood: Right. It's just common respect i think for the man to pay. Maybe not every time, but the first few dates till a relationship is established. Then maybe she can pick up a tab, atleast buy drinks or something. But i'm old fashioned, so i just expect a man to be also i guess. Idk...i'm rambling lol