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When you meet a girl (that you are interested in) is it better to come off like a nice friend or to (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (30 / M-F / Massachusetts)
12-May-17 6:51 am
When you meet a girl (that you are interested in) is it better to come off like a nice friend or to flirt from the start?

Just wondering I don't like flirting that much, has the friendly approach worked for you guys?


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 Critter1211 (11)       (50 / F-MF / Tennessee)
12-May-17 7:13 am
Mmm good question

 

 

 
 
 rulost2 (35)     (54 / M-F / Mississippi)
12-May-17 7:17 am
How about you flirt friendly

 

 

 
 
 Critter1211 (11)       (50 / F-MF / Tennessee)
12-May-17 7:25 am
How about you flirt friendly
i like that

 

 

 
 
 Sweetreats 
12-May-17 9:04 pm
Flirt from the start. One of the things that attracted me to my dude is how he didn't play the "oh let's see where this goes." games. I also liked that he asked me to be his girlfriend before we had sex and I didn't have to assume anything.

 

 

 
 
 Critter1211 (11)       (50 / F-MF / Tennessee)
12-May-17 9:12 pm
@Sweetreats: i don't like the see where this goes either. And the problem with the friends things is that's how it starts with everybody, you don't feel special that way. Glad your guy did it right.

 

 

 
 
 MrWalkSoftly (16)     (59 / M-F / Louisiana)
12-May-17 9:15 pm
Always flirt at first....Then read the signs if she's interested in more, or just a friendship.
But be genuine and honest always.

 

 

 
 
 Sweetreats 
12-May-17 9:20 pm
@Sweetreats: i don't like the see where this goes either. And the problem with the friends things is that's how it starts with everybody, you don't feel special that way. Glad your guy did it right.
Thanks, me too. I was so tired of guessing. I also was tired of giving the cootie and still being "friends"...

 

 

 
 
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