Ok so im super shy and I feel really awkward asking this but im going to anyway.......ok so I like love lesbian porn it really turns me on and I fantasize about being with a girl all the time and I think I have a crush on my hairdresser........does this mean im bi/lesbian ???

U should talk to more guys then make a choice

Hmmm well its kinda normal to wonder about the same sex especially at ur age, even having a crush on a girl and watching lesbian porn. It dont make u a lesbian tho, its jus ur sexual hormones signaling that u like certain things. I think its wierd if a man watches gay porn but i think its normal for women to be attracted to watching other women and it is educational. I dont know, if u act out on ur fantasy then u mite be bi.....but until then ur jus curious.

Yeah. You kinda have to decide for yourself. If you get a gf then i would say your bi. Im straight. And i made the choice that thats the way im gonna be. Im past the porn stage in my life. But even then i never looked at gay/lesbian porn. Cause i felt it was wrong. So i would say to decide how your gonna be and what your gonna do.

Y not try out with a women and see if this is what u want. Women know each others bodies and u do know what each others like. U can only try it and if its not 4 u then u have not lost anything. Ur just curious no harm in that. Just do what ur heart is saying and follow it. Good luck

As a fellow young person I must say you have some disturbing pervy thoughts. That is very nasty & naughty.....I really don't want to offend you but why are u watching that, anyway? There is so much more to life! Oh and shy people don't have dirty minds, hun. I'm sorry but yes I believe you are lesbian. Maybe u should try a differen't approach like slowly becoming friends because I can already see you're probably going to end up freaking out the poor hairdresser. :(

Lol that was kinda funny! There not perv thoughts nor are they nasty.....its completely 100% natural. ALOTTTTT of people watch porn at sum point in life or another, her perference on what she watches doesnt make her a lesbian nor does it make her straight.....it makes her normal. We all have different things that turn us on, no need to call her a perv cuz hers is different. And shy people DO have dirty minds! Where in the world would u ever get they didnt?

@Briteeyes1211: Lol idk!!! my bad I mean.....um I guess if thats how she feels then awesome. I'm just afraid she might be too forward and scare the lady off with her twisted sexual fantisies lol. but well it's really rare to find a shy person with their minds in the gutter XP and I was trying to give advice so she can take things slow and not frighten the hairdresser!

@OFWGKTA: Lol, yeah i agree with that. I didnt really address the hairdresser issue lol. I jus was talkin bout the porn thing, I agree with u tho having a crush is one thing but she should definently be careful when it comes to acting towards the hairdresser cuz if shes not into that it will for sure freak her out!

U have to figure out Y u like ur hairdresser...do u have sexual dreams about her or do u like her bcuz she a nice person?? is she gay?