Appreciate all the input. Its actually his idea he knows the deal. I dont need someone to be happy either but i want a partner. Would be good partners everyone says so.

I would settle with a decent person,but in california,woman are always looking for the next best thing,, going through threw guys,just for money

I would settle, but maybe thats because of the way my love life has gone so far.

Thank you. I've always said i would wether be alone and happy then with sum1 and be miserable.

@Tomuchman4u: problem with dream guy is u wake up and they arent real.

When I was 24 years old I settled to a man whom I really loved though we were from 2 different worlds . I loved him and he loved me and that was what we thought matters all in the relationship . After 6 years the "!ship" sunk . After more than a decade , my answer would be different than before ... yes , I would settle to a decent man whom we both shared the same views , in life as long as no evil intention .Love is a strong foundation in any "ship "but will not solely survived in all challenges without the presence of other components of a successful relationship ...,...

yep...will jst add wld be nice to share lifes lil moments...

Honestly, I look at it this way. If you wouldnt want someone to just settle for you, dont settle for someone else either. It could end up hurting one of you in the end. Good luck:)

Being wit someone that you get along wit does have its down fall. I rather have a love and not a fake thing

Lots to think about. Thanks!