Like who?

@WalkSoftly: I agree...think positive... always! Past is the past...Look for tomorrow. I stay happy like a possum eating ch.it!

We are the wrong people to ask. Go to a church where an elderly couple have been married longer than you have been alive. They have the secret. Push for specifics... cuz they will always begin with spiritual platitudes.

Its pretty simple actually....we can learn from the past and grow into better people......or remain stagnant in it and rot away.

and some pick to simply be happy.

@WalkSoftly: what has alcohol got to do with anything? Are the ones that cut fool presumed alcohic? Makes me mad when i run outta toilet paper.Js...Dang, i need a beer! Life goes on.

@im1made4u: im sorry sweetie i know what you felt i felt it to its never easy but we made it didnt we still surviving

@Scootch: i understand what your saying sadly death and sorrow dont discriminate with age but its ok im ok

Yes & thank you sorry you lost your love. Its hard when life takes turn you don't expect. My mom & dad had the kinda love id like to find someday.

@im1made4u: i know i would like that as well my parents would have been together longer if my father hadnt died