Exactly! A lot of ppl haven't learned this but the sooner you do.. it will help you forever.

@KaylaKristine: it's called narcissism

I agree with these guys for the most part. Most guy only think about themselves and getting laid. Unfortunately that's just how it is. To be fair though, woman are just as bad. They like to look all pretty and flirt with you until they get what they want. So my conclusion is, people in general only think about themselves.
My advice would also be to try and slow down. If you feel like your in love, take a step back and breathe for a moment. If he loves you then he won't mind taking it slow as well.

I fall in love hard and fast and i would not have it any other way. What kind of woman are you? He could just be interested in that whole hittin it and quittin it thing. Or maybe you are just too much woman for him. Sometimes guys get scared off by the good ones.

If a good woman can be found. N yes before the women say it a good man can be hard to find too!

Plus just remember it may hurt and suck now. But its a chance to learn and it will make you a better and stronger person aslong as you choose to learn from it. Just dont let it make you like the one that hurt you. And good men and great men are easy to find. It just takes some looking.