@texascharmer254: that's so true. Its rare I see a 24 year ol though that's serious about settling down. All my dating life all my relationships were serious and I was settled so I really don't know a life different from that. I like having a lover who is also my best friend.

@BigPapaRedneck: I have gone through the entire talking and getting to know. And its not easy when you get so close to someonme through all those emails or telephone conversation then they just disappear. That's why I want to meet up sooner the better. I don't need emails months after month anymore. Or endless phone calls...that's doesn't lead to the actual meeting.
Thanks.
:)

@vybzgurlblondy: Are there very many guys from Jamaica on here? Theyre probably your best chance of actually meeting. Most people here, guys and girls, arent willing to travel out of country to meet up.

@WalkSoftly: I doubt it! I've never seen one and I'm really not interested if there were.

@vybzgurlblondy: That's really sad. I got to know my ex-fiance through yahoo chat. While we did end up going our separate ways I would've never had a face to face meeting with her and spent the year we had together had we not talked for about 2 months before meeting up. And honestly, as a man, I can tell you why the people you meet are all about nude picture trading and a bit of the rudeness. You are VERY attractive. If you weren't so far away I most totally be trying to catch your eye. Patience is the key. You WILL find somebody serious but it won't just happen. Those who just stopped talking to you were total fools. Don't let that ruin it for a true gentleman who respects a woman enough to do things right and take it slow.

Lol really? Whats wrong with Jamaican men?

@BigPapaRedneck: thanks a lot for that.....motivation is always good especially when needed. I won't let that ruin my patience just that I don't think I can purlong it as I normally do. I'm not getting any younger... :-)
I'm sorry about ur relationship that ended, hope you find a sweet woman soon.

@WalkSoftly: immature, abusive, dis-respectful, dnt treat women good..etc etc

@vybzgurlblondy: No reason to be sorry. That whole thing ended 12 years ago. I'm in a place in my life now where I can look back on it as a learning experience. All I ask is that you don't do anything rash. You'll only end up hurt if you do. Good luck!

@vybzgurlblondy: people may believe your picture is you if you verify and will help you in your search a lot