@mrb89: Yep! Just kitties in heat! Lololol!

A message is the first thing Id want. I got a wink frm a 60 year old guy and was so creeped out.!

Wink? I always wink back for those who wink at me;)
message? I replied everyone but sometimes late.coz I'm busy at work and no enough time,plus the time difference also.so that's why have some problems of replying every message.

Either of the two is alright

I agree... It is expecting the other person to do the work. A wink then a message says, im interested in you READ my profile. But VERY few do READ profiles, unforutately .

I don't Dating.mobi should CHANGE to accomadate bad behaviour. (And with so FEW WOMEN... What are the chances they will get responces anyway?)Yes... They should go to other sites.

I was told to "Deal with it "as well & by women. So I dealt w/it by changeing my profile repeatedly & my restictions. (Which for 3-4mo. have been, USA WOMEN only ). It's not what I signed up for... a "date site"... Now it just social. I have seen so many women leave, & change their profiles, it is ridiculous. * No this isn't man bashing...lmao *

@Zilya777: Yes it was only 1 women that told me that Others i talked to said it was a problem they were having. Iv learned read profile & their posting. But changing my profile has helped alot.

@im1made4u: Yes.. READ it all, but FEW out of 200,000 people post. So it takes a h*ll of alot of messageing then texing etc.. To even BEGIN to know someone. So the (old fashion way...lol) , of "meet & greet ".. Has worked out, so much better for me :-)

Sad but true.. The mentality now days, seems to be "FREE & NOW, NOW, NOW "... With as little effort as possible.. Smdh