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Am I ugly or what. (by rayminton49)

 rayminton49 
14-Jul-12 11:51 pm
I message women. They view my profile. But they never reply. I always respectful. I mention something on their profile that we have in common and still nothin. Im about ready to just say heck with it and delete.

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
15-Jul-12 12:01 am
If it were just a few it wouldnt be so bad. But every single one. Somethin must be really wrong with me to make a woman not even answer me.

 

 

 
 
 Andres (105)     (Admin)
15-Jul-12 12:08 am
If it were just a few it wouldnt be so bad. But every single one. Somethin must be really wrong with me to make a woman not even answer me.
If they're reading the Forums, then I can tell you right off the bat that these types of posts aren't helping you.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
15-Jul-12 12:10 am
I hope you dont. There might be many reasons they dont talk to you. Your not ugly. They could be talking to someone already. They might not be interested. They could be shallow. But thats no reason to give up. There are more guys on the site then girls. Maybe the one for you hasnt joined yet and you never know when that could be. Today, tomarrow or a year down the line. Giving up is not an option in my book. Just takes times and patience and a positive attitude.

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
15-Jul-12 12:29 am
@brats52005: Ok I'll try and follow your advice. Hopefully you're right.

 

 

 
 
 leegale 
15-Jul-12 1:51 am
Dud just take it cool love dosn't happen a day or two.look next time you see somone you like ask her to come chat with you and see where that takes you.

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
15-Jul-12 2:13 am
Dud just take it cool love dosn't happen a day or two.look next time you see somone you like ask her to come chat with you and see where that takes you.
im finding that alot of men are having the same problem as raymitton here so its might be not comfortable to speak out. Im not sure what it is the others some have already deleted. But as opinions go reasons go also there are many. And you are right. Maybe trying to chat with them but if they decline the same effect happens as no messages. I think a person should try to be as positive about things. I know its not easy i have my days. Im not perfect and like me nobody is.

 

 

 
 
 SamuraiHonor (13)    (38 / M-F / Texas)
15-Jul-12 4:15 am
Where are my cookies i looked everywhere for them , hey wait is that who i think it is yup dang it who let the cookie monster in here no my cookies r gone :( . lol random

 

 

 
 
 SamuraiHonor (13)    (38 / M-F / Texas)
15-Jul-12 4:18 am
Here to lightin up the mood with my randomness :D

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
15-Jul-12 4:33 am
Where are my cookies i looked everywhere for them , hey wait is that who i think it is yup dang it who let the cookie monster in here no my cookies r gone :( . lol random
this is too funny and yes o.p. Needds to relax and enjoy himself. Not worry about thing let the shallow for what ever reason go.

 

 

 
 
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