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Why is it always about sex? (by xXbrookellexX)
Why do guys think that after you have had phone sex with them or expressed your sexual feelings twards them, everything from then on has to be about sex! ? I DON'T GET IT
Some guys never set boundaries or limitations so clearly states your thoughts about it before you start the phone sex thing
(58 / M-F / California)@xXbrookellexX: First of all dont have phone sex with guys and dont express your sexual feeling towards them. If you start it thats what your going to get.
Yeah if you are willing to have phone sex with someone, then its a green light for them to feel free to talk about sex whenever. if it was a normal everyday conversation you had then by all means complain about that person always talking about sex. but it seems you already set the standards at that.
I am gonna agree with setting boundaries with the phone sex. But the best way to not get this kinda thing is to not have it at all. Because once you open this kinda thing up they do think they have the right to openly talk about it. Just think about it.
Well ill be honest....had never had phone sex and tried it recently with someone and we sill talk bout ALL kinds of things and never sex....so i know it is possible to have Real conversation after the 'sex' can is opened.
Dosent have to be that way but if you come on strong then a guy dont know what to think so it depends on the situation i guess
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